As a Mediator, I work with people in high stress conflicts. Conflict affects all of us, causing some people to get “stuck” or interact with others in unhealthy ways. One of the major [...]

As we approach the Christmas season, we are reminded of what we are thankful for. I am grateful for so many things, especially my family. My wife and I love this time of [...]

About 20 years ago my friend Mike told me music from the 70’s was superior to music from the 80’s. I thought he was crazy. Sure there was outstanding music in the 70’s, [...]

If you are coaching or advising someone struggling with the feelings and thoughts described above, there are some things you can do. There is a path of conversation that will help the person [...]

Virtually every worker in a non-profit organization has experienced this. And if someone is managing conflict in a non-profit, they had better be aware of it. The result of being unaware is usually [...]

One of the great causes of negative conflict is assumption. That is, WRONG assumptions. We are shaped by our surroundings. Our families, friends, school experiences, cultural upbringing, etc. all play a part in [...]

In the early 90’s my mother had a cool, red convertible car that she loved. We all enjoyed driving it or riding in it -wind blowing through our hair. That is, until it [...]

I am interested in conflict and what we can learn from it. I was watching Celebrity Apprentice when another conflict arose, this time between Gary Busey and Meatloaf –maybe you saw it too. [...]